Confidence

When one doesn't have confidence, it's hard to do certain things. Confident guys have no problem talking to girls and being cocky and arrogant. It comes with being confident. There are levels of confidence, and I guess it just depends where what your confidence level is. I have confidence in many areas: sports, computers, math, music, and spazzin. However, the one place I lack some confidence is girls and talking to girls. I tend to wait until they talk to me, and that has worked in the past. But, there will be times when there's this one girl who is unbelievably attractive, that you just have to psych yourself into talking to her. It doesn't matter what you say or what she says back. The fact that your talking to her will make yourself feel better. This was the case last night. I had already heard about this girl from my friend when went to the bar, and he said she was pretty hot. So when I learned this girl would be at our friends house, I was pretty intrigued to see her.

When I saw her at the house, I was like DAMN, this chick is fuckin' beautiful. Like she's not the type of girl you call hot. She's the type of girl you call attractive, beautiful, or stunning. I kept telling myself the whole night to talk to her. Find a moment, and just introduce yourself or make a joke and roll from there. Well, it kinda worked. I made a little joke about this group of kids who walked in, but were in the wrong place so they left right after they came in. The best part, was when we were walking to this other house party, and me and my friend were walking on both her sides and talking to her at the same time. We were actually "fighting" for her, but all I was trying to do was just talk to her, flirt with her a little, and have a good time with her. It all started when I asked if she wanted to play pong with me, and she said yea. The funny thing was that I knew her name, but I didn't want her to know that, so I asked her name in a funny way. I was like, "you what's funny? We're a team, and I don't know what your name is. What's your name?". Then to play it off, I was like, "See, we're already team building, we have a solid foundation now". She was cracking up. Then I told her that we needed a special hand-shake, so since I was feelin' her, I decided to go with the one hand-shake no one can hate, the Fresh Prince shake. I showed her it, and she liked it, so we were set to play.

We won the game, which had this girl in a really good mood. So then we went to my other friend's house, which was a pretty good time too. I ran into a lot of people I knew, so that was real cool. We were talking, dancing, and ready to play pong. But two of my roommates left, so it was me and my other roommate and the group of girls. So then they decided to leave, we walked them back to their car, and hugged them good-night. I honestly felt we both had a good time that night. We weren't flirting the way I would've liked to, but it was good. And it always feels good to make a girl, especially a very attractive girl laugh, because your own personality and sense of humor that made her laugh. Anyway, that night with this girl was really good, and gave me a lot of confidence.